I'll Never Be Blond

I'm not a blond. I'll never be a blond. I don't want to be a blond ... but, I can't help but wonder - would my dating life have been hotter if I was a fair-haired vixen? Upon deep analysis of my past relationships and crushes I have discovered that nearly all the guys I have really liked ended up with cute, bubbly blonds. I can do bubbly; in fact, lately I have been quite bubbly, but I can also be quite serious. I'm one of those driven, I am woman hear me roar, Oprah loving, brainy sorts of women ... but, I can do bubbly, really I can.

Don't get me wrong, boys like me. I can get a descent guy. It's just that typically I attract smart, mathematically oriented, Engineer-type guys. Of course there is nothing wrong with this kind of guy; they're usually reliable, considerate ... predictable (snore). The problem is serious + serious = BORING! I have so often been attracted to the fun good-looking jock with a soft side. Unfortunately for me, the jocks that I have encountered are not attracted to the Lois Lanes of this world, they want blond cheerleader types. Which brings me to my first point - I'm not a blond. I will never be a blond. Is there any hope for me?

What I've Learned Since the Divorce

1. Life can be magical and romantic without a man.
2. Living in the moment means doing the things that bring you the most fulfillment as often as possible.
3. Men are wonderful, I like men, but sometimes I wish they were more like women (is it really that hard to pick your underwear off the floor or clean the bathroom without being asked).
4. Women are wonderful, I love women and I am so proud to be one.
5. Most often we are the ones who put limitations on ourselves. Silly isn't it?
6. The law of attraction is real, if you can visualize it and believe it you can have it (within reason) and gratitude is sure to multiply your blessings.
7. I'm sexy and I'm not afraid of that.
8. It's okay to let loose and have fun, we have more to offer the world when we are happy.
9. Friends - the kind that have seen you at your worst, best, and everything in between and still love you - are infinitely precious.
10. Stick it to the Man. I wanna live my own authentic life!

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